That means NO stress, pressure chosen by me how to use and when, it means no outside grump or negative comments to drag me down.
It also means hard training in need to be chosen by me which one, sticking to plan of how to eat and what. It means keeping my knowledge up to date. Best of all it means Humour and toughest of all it means I need to evaluate and train myself in how to react and take others words and emotions. I never liked hearing people close to me having negative comments about others or things they not intend to change in their sentences such as calling people Idiot, A*hole, stupid etc etc. Or saying things about weather, politics or companies such as > disgusting weather, murdering politicians who destroyed bla bla bla, and horrible company who grind grind grind….
I get it people have an inner urge to express them self, I know I do this too although it doesn’t make this world a better place. If any it makes it a worse place an unpleasant dark world of anxiety, worry anger and repressing culture.
So how can I keep all this away from dragging me down?
I can avoid these people when possible, I can tell them how unpleasant it is to listen to, I can educate and question. Another way is to stop myself from doing the same thing, admit and apologise when I have been guilty of this inefficient dissatisfaction.
If I don’t like the weather, I have no need to talk about it. Someone else might actually like it so who am I to destroy their mood by criticizing their liking? Luckily I don’t suffer from this guilt to much, I happen to love all weather as long as it is any weather. Ones got to adapt.
I do complain about complainers calling people names. That’s my pet hate I’m most guilty of and people who play the system illogically by finding excuses for not having to think outside the box or fairly.
So I have to work on that. Bullying is annoying. But not like many others I don’t hate and blame everything on someone people would call a bully. I dislike those letting bullying behaviour occur and pointing fingers at each other. Bullying is a behaviour not a person. And everyone is a victim here and pain cant be competed in. Which brings be to something else that I really do not like. People who loves hating politicians, who slags them of in conversations online and offline like they have the right to suddenly becoming bullying grim jinx at the same time they pride themselves of being hard-working honest people. horse manure on that. If you are a hard working and honest person what your actions would be is get in to REAL reporting, investigative journalism or even politics. Show proof of they wrong doings, come up with solutions of improvements and possibilities.
To slag someone of in a conversation with profanities instead of proof or information is pure bullying and slander which only keeps you being the corrupt unpleasant person to be around so stand up admit when you need improvements and keep following your already started path of greatness by helping the people close to you by making their days a pleasant and exciting experience.
So to stop being a boring nag I am now going to go and have some drugs> COFFEE… Get some vitamins from the sun.